
Photo: Suki Dhanda
Suswati Basu, 20. Student and activist
‘Two years ago I was gang raped in a London park. When I told the police I was in counselling due to a history of childhood sexual abuse they made me sign a statement saying I was “too mentally incapacitated to know what consent was”. I was so out of it I didn’t know what I was signing. I wasn’t allowed to see a solicitor or my family.
‘When I later tried to change my statement, the police prosecuted me for lying. My caution was eventually overturned, but no one was convicted of the rape: the whole thing was brushed under the carpet. Thankfully that was the turning point, when I realised I had to fight back.
‘My lawyer, Harriet Wistrich, is my saint and a fantastic friend who has protected me through thick and thin. It was Harriet who encouraged me to speak out about what happened to me as an ambassador for the Women and Girls Network (WGN). Of course I was scared. It is a difficult thing to say and to hear, but it’s the truth.
‘I’m working with WGN to set up an NHS initiative offering young people counselling with other young people who have suffered similar violence and abuse.
‘I’m also president of the Women’s Society at the School of Oriental and African Studies, where I study, and I’m involved with the London Feminist Network’s annual ‘Reclaim the Night’ march. Feminism means absolute equality. I’m not interested in a chair being held out for me so I can sit down in it. No thanks. I’ve got arms; I’ll do it myself.
‘Women’s rights activism is my passion. It’s something I’ll always want to be involved in and hopefully intertwine with my working life. I’m still in my early twenties so my boyfriend doesn’t really get a look in. I would love to start a family one day, but only after my career is established. I’m scared to have a daughter, because I know what she will face as a woman, but at least I’ll be able to support her and educate her.
‘I would love to see the day when women can walk freely on the streets and wear what they want and not be judged. Hopefully it will be in my lifetime, but if not maybe the next generation will get something better.’
This piece first appeared in The Observer Review.